
As 2008 gradually passes into history, it is a time where we traditionally look back at the good and the bad of the year just been. It tends to be a bit of a yawn, but ocassionally, we say to ourselves, “oh yeah, I remember that.” This year has been no exception, although there have been some remarkable things happen. My thoughts, however, are not about the endless litany of ‘events’ that have occurred. To list those would be mundane, boring, and already done to death by every television network in the world. I think it’s important to look at whether our world is a better place than it was 12 months ago, and where it should be heading as 2009 stands ready at our doorstep, waiting to be invited in.
What has struck me this past year especially, has been the world’s complete lack of tolerance towards others. Coupled with this is suspicion, anger, and downright hatred. The guilty ones in all this are the Anglo-Saxon members of our world population. Speaking from what I have witnessed in my home country of Australia, I still hear Australians, many from early migrant stock themselves, wondering where the ‘Aussies’ are. “I don’t see any Australians around anymore”, many of them say. It’s not just the older generations. There seems to be this complete lack of understanding that all of us in Australia, and the United States for that matter, have come from somewhere else. We are all of migrant stock. The only true Australians are the Aboriginal people, and even they came from parts of Asia tens of thousands of years ago. What comes with the dislike of other nationalities, comes also a sense of jealousy. It’s the ‘we were here first’ mentality; strongly territorial. Instead of seeing what those from other countries have to offer their adopted homeland, they see people who ‘can’t drive’, ‘eat weird food’, and ‘impose their customs and religious beliefs on us.’ It’s sad that we can’t see migrants adding to the intricate fabric that is our society. We see them as a minus, not a plus. People fear the whole concept of an ‘Australian identity’ slipping away.
The election of Barack Obama was such a pivotal moment in our collective history. It showed the world that through all our hatred, bigotry and selfishness, that we can, but for a moment, put it aside and choose hope. Obama may end up the biggest disaster that the US has seen, but we took a chance. We were risk takers who saw the old way as just not working. But can that hope stretch to the rest of the world? If the Mumbai attacks and the latest slaughter by the Israelis in Gaza is anything to go by, then Obama’s victory was nice and interesting for that night, but life and conflict must still go on.
We have spent our history in conflicts of one kind or another. Whether they have taken the form of civil wars, coups, bombing raids, suicide bombings, or hostage situations, they have all stemmed from one party feeling hard done by and misunderstood. If we sat down with the arab, he or she will tell you that if Israel didn’t occupy their land, there would not be a fight. The Israelis would tell you how they feel about the arab, but it would end up in the same result.
Those who open fire into classrooms and other public spaces are people who are misunderstood and feel that nobody listens to them nor understands them. People who take others hostage do so to make people notice not them, but what they have to say. Dictators feel they need to control their country and their people so that the world will listen to them and for once, take them seriously. It gets down to all of us listening to each other. None of us likes being ignored.
In Northern Ireland, they finally came to peace, because both sides sat down and listened to each other for the first time. They didn’t just hear, they listened. There’s a huge difference.
So my New Year’s wish is that we see citizens of the world start to really listen to each other. Barack Obama could lead by example and create a new world of open diplomacy. Let’s stop being judgemental, hateful and superior. Let’s look at our Vietnamese neighbour and praise him for his smile, not be suspicious of him because he may come and eat our dog. Let’s have deep respect for our Muslim neighbours during their holiest month of Ramadan, rather than constantly worry whether we live in the midst of a terrorist. Let’s incorporate African music and dance into our classrooms, rather than seeing the African race as tribal and dangerous. For each negative, there is always a positive.
…auld lang syne literally means “old long since”, but a more idiomatic English translation would be something like “long long ago”, “days of long ago”, “in olden days”, or even “once upon a time”. “For old time’s sake” or “to the good old days” may be modern-day expressions, in common use as a toast, that capture the spirit of “for auld lang syne”. “For auld lang syne, my dear, for auld lang syne, we’ll take a cup of kindness yet, for auld lang syne.”
May we ‘take a cup of kindness’ into 2009 and share it with at least one person we wouldn’t have shared it with before.
Have a safe, prosperous and successful 2009.
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